So, by now almost everyone in the world has heard “Watermelon Sugar” by Harry Styles. I have never been a huge pop music fan, though it is a catchy song, and I will give credit where credit it is due. This song does tick all the right boxes for me, I have listened to more of Harry Styles music since then, however let us not deviate from Watermelon Sugar today.
In the year of the pandemic, one of our most popular songs is called Watermelon sugar. Was this to create a carefree summer narrative during these times, or is there more to the song?
At a time when we were confined to our homes and not allowed any human contact outside our house, these were trying times if you were single and living alone. Human contact is essential, and I believe many people realised this during the stricter lockdown periods.
This song premiered the 18th of May 2020, and I took to it instantly, but somehow felt there was more to it. It seemed very sexual if you paid attention to specific lines. At first, I was not sure if I was just in need of a severe kink fix and picking up on sexual innuendo that wasn’t there, but low and behold once I had watched it on YouTube, I knew, of course, I was right.
Think I am wrong? In the opening credits of the video, it states, “This video is dedicated to touching” and it just gets better from there. If you have not seen the video, you can watch it below:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E07s5ZYygMg
The song and music video are exceptionally sexually loaded, which gives it more credit, in my opinion. This song is about pleasuring a woman orally, LADIES, we are the “Watermelon Sugar”. Hell yes, I have no problem with a man satisfying me and not being able to get enough of it.
Gone are the days of polishing his knob and enduring his terrible attempts. As I paraphrase Jane Seymour, as Professor Lewis in How I Met Your Mother “your oral presentation was sloppy and inconclusive”, don’t you love that show! Watermelon Sugar should be the new anthem for woman wanting to be pleasured the right way. This song has been added to my kink playlist, and I know I will be listening to it a little more often.
This song made me realise that it is about time that men start learning to play their part in foreplay. Granted, I am sure there are men out there that have perfected the art; however, the majority still have a long way to go from what I have read and heard. It is always expected of us, as a woman to know how to pleasure a man orally but let us be honest once it is in your mouth, they are already halfway there, not too much technique is required to get them to the finishing line. We as woman are all unique though, as are our bodies.
There is no one size fits all approach, we all like different things, in different ways with varying techniques, if any.
You cannot solely lay the blame on a man if your needs are not being met. Your mouth has many uses, and in a case as such, it is time to speak up.
What worked for the previous woman that he was with will not work for you; this is a fact. Not only do you not want old tricks, you want him to learn everything about your body and what makes you purr. As you may know by now, I am happily single, but I have many wants and needs as a woman. It took me a long time to find a playmate that is liked minded and willing to learn about everything that makes me purr.
This is a conversation that you need to have; it is pointless being in a sexual relationship/scene if you are not going to discuss your wants and needs. You need to be able to tell him what you want, how you want and what areas need more attention; this is not the time to play the shy and cute role. This is where you assert your sexual power and insist on what you need, what you WANT.
We are no longer in the twentieth century; we do not have to play by the same rules. I have a playmate, emphasise on play. I do not want to play mother to a man; I do not want to cook and clean for a man. I do not need a man to look after me. I want a man to play with nothing more and nothing less. I want to live my life as I please, yes there might be an awkward conversation or questions that I might have to answer, but ultimately this is my life, and I need to do what makes me happy without losing myself.
Originally published at https://www.wiseharsh.com on November 27, 2020.
