Cucking is a fetish or a kink where a partner is turned on by watching their partner have sex with someone else. It falls under the BDSM umbrella as there are forms of domination/ submission, including humiliation or degradation.
Cucking a popular fantasy among couples, and the term is searched daily worldwide; it is also a popular category on porn sites. There are several terms involved with cucking, a breakdown of them below.
Cuckquean is usually a woman that would be “forced” to watch their partner have sex with another person. Their partner could be having sex with the Bull. Cuckqueans typically identify as female.
A cuckold is usually a man that watches his “hotwife” have sex with a Bull. The Bull will usually degrade the Cuckold and the size of his penis while having rough sex with the Cuckolds's “Hotwife.” Cuckolds typically identify as male.
Bull is usually the outside partner brought into this dynamic to have rough, domineering sex with the partner. A Bull could be male or female; the idea of the Bull is that they are considered to be a better version of the Cuckold or Cuckquean, younger, sexy, and more virile/fertile.
Cucking is an excellent humiliation or degradation fantasy for many submissives. However, it might not always be the reality.
Many couples out there have tried cucking, and cucking can ruin a relationship and devastate a partner. There are many horror stories out there, where couples enjoyed the thought of cucking, and when they turned their fantasy into reality, it ruined their marriage or relationship.
Cucking needs consent first and foremost, and this needs to be discussed and planned correctly. Discuss the need and goal of a cucking scene; once boundaries have been discussed, take your time looking for a Bull. Both partners need to agree on the Bull, get to know the Bull. Chat online with potential Bull’s and once you have established a bond, arrange to meet in person, only a meeting at first over coffee or at a restaurant.
In any situation where another person comes into a relationship, all parties need to be in agreement and be comfortable with each other. Take it slow and make sure this is something you want; there is nothing wrong with having a fantasy and leaving it as a fantasy. Cucking could change your relationship forever or ruin it.
Ensure everyone is tested for STIs and any other contagious diseases and share the results with each other. Stay safe, play safe.
Originally published at https://www.wiseharsh.com on March 5, 2021.
